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That is because masculinity, or at least the most basic stereotype of it, is meant to be dominant and to attract femininity.Femininity, on the other hand, is weak and attracts masculinity.They say that a man has to act and present a certain way in order to date another man or another woman.But we know better than that: We should all be validated and allowed to live the truth of our own experiences.
I am told I don’t exist or that I’m going through a phase.But the invalidation of our sexualities only grows when bisexual individuals don’t express their gender identities in conventional ways.There are spaces for gay men, lesbian women, bisexual women, and trans women to express femininity.Aside from confusing people with regard to my sexuality, it also hurts my chances with straight women. (If anything, our relationship was far more physical than anything else.) “Then what’s the deal?
In my freshmen year of college, a girl I was seeing for a few months ended the relationship because of my femininity. ” I asked her when she broke the news of our breakup. ” I asked, knowing her answer before she even said it.For gay men, any expression of femininity can lead to regressive associations with sexual preferences (a more masculine guy is presumed to be a “top,” while a more feminine guy gets cast as the “bottom”).